Wow this thread is really...something
anyway hey OP, girl here to give some advice:
- it’s really easy to get into pickup artist/red pill/“game” ideas online and that shit is poisonous. do not do this.
- the way you talk about women is interesting - you mentioned upthread that you feel uncomfortable interacting in anything other than a “cordial” way. why is that? is it the case with all women or just some? what makes us different than your male friends? think about where this is coming from. we’re just regular people like you. is your social world all men? do you have women who are friends or mentors? do you read books and watch movies made by women? if not, that’s something to change.
- do you like yourself? if we went out for a drink would you feel like you would have things you’re passionate about that you like discussing? is there anything good in your life right now that isn’t med school? focus on that. lots of people say “be confident” but it’s easier to do that when you’re happy and you’re learning new things and doing stuff you enjoy.
Good luck in med school!