trust me its not just you hahah! especially considering i didn't find out how this actually works until like two weeks ago lol
UofT is my first choice but i just won't take the chance of rejecting my other offer in hopes of coming off UoftT's waitlist, because i have no idea how high i am or if they're even going to send many waitlist offers in the first place (people have been mentioning they may send more offers than they actually want to end up with, and maybe their class size is smaller this year too?)
but in any case, happy for those who might eventually get an offer from UofT d