Chestnut Posted March 20, 2018 Report Share Posted March 20, 2018 Trying to distract myself and get my mind off things. But I thought I wouldn’t be the only one. Thought we could share ideas and even just commiserate in the long wait! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
this_process_is_death Posted March 20, 2018 Report Share Posted March 20, 2018 I think a lot of us are on the same boat. Personally I'm focusing most of my energy on work. I also try and see friends and family as frequently as I can. I find that reducing the time I spend alone helps me keep my mind off things. Also, memes. Memes are great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koopatroopa Posted March 20, 2018 Report Share Posted March 20, 2018 I'm so busy for the next couple of months lol. I have a ton of schoolwork to get done over the next month or so; then have a cross-country road trip (slash honeymoon ) planned for the beginning of May - which I'm sure will keep me distracted enough! I think spending as much time with friends and family (while I still have it) is also my plan. I find spending time with sane-ish people increases my sanity I'm a pretty anxious person in general, so on a day-to-day when I'm alone and fretting over interviews/outcomes, I enjoy doing art - mostly drawing - and writing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chestnut Posted March 20, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 20, 2018 2 hours ago, this_process_is_death said: I think a lot of us are on the same boat. Personally I'm focusing most of my energy on work. I also try and see friends and family as frequently as I can. I find that reducing the time I spend alone helps me keep my mind off things. Also, memes. Memes are great. Same here! So much free time on my hands now that there's only work to focus on and nothing else to get done. Going to try and work on my fitness habits while I'm at it 2 minutes ago, Koopatroopa said: I'm so busy for the next couple of months lol. I have a ton of schoolwork to get done over the next month or so; then have a cross-country road trip (slash honeymoon ) planned for the beginning of May - which I'm sure will keep me distracted enough! I think spending as much time with friends and family (while I still have it) is also my plan. I find spending time with sane-ish people increases my sanity I'm a pretty anxious person in general, so on a day-to-day when I'm alone and fretting over interviews/outcomes, I enjoy doing art - mostly drawing - and writing. Congrats on getting married (or getting married soon, if it hasn't happened yet)!! Where are you guys thinking of travelling? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koopatroopa Posted March 20, 2018 Report Share Posted March 20, 2018 Just now, Chestnut said: Congrats on getting married (or getting married soon, if it hasn't happened yet)!! Where are you guys thinking of travelling? Thanks - the wedding is soon!! (although... we planned our wedding after the honeymoon...... we might be doing it wrong ) We are flying to Toronto to buy a car (which is its own story lol), and are thinking of exploring the Maritimes, Ontario and Quebec. And then we will drive back to BC, visiting family along the way. Should be a really nice trip, as long as everything works out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 20, 2018 Report Share Posted March 20, 2018 Doing whatever I can to distract myself. The admission decisions are constantly on the back of my mind. I try to avoid deliberating my interview performance because every time I think about it, the worse I think I did. Luckily I have a full-time job to divert my attention and a Netflix account, but I’m constantly lurking the forum, lol. The waiting game is the toughest. The month of May really can’t some soon enough. I’m glad this thread was made. When I talk about it with family and friends who’ve never been in our position, they don’t really understand the anxiety, stress and emotional turmoil we feel. Thanks for keeping me sane. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 20, 2018 Report Share Posted March 20, 2018 7 minutes ago, Koopatroopa said: Thanks - the wedding is soon!! (although... we planned our wedding after the honeymoon...... we might be doing it wrong ) We are flying to Toronto to buy a car (which is its own story lol), and are thinking of exploring the Maritimes, Ontario and Quebec. And then we will drive back to BC, visiting family along the way. Should be a really nice trip, as long as everything works out Congrats on honeymoon and wedding! Im planning mine for fall of this year! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chestnut Posted March 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 22, 2018 On 3/20/2018 at 11:10 AM, Koopatroopa said: Thanks - the wedding is soon!! (although... we planned our wedding after the honeymoon...... we might be doing it wrong ) We are flying to Toronto to buy a car (which is its own story lol), and are thinking of exploring the Maritimes, Ontario and Quebec. And then we will drive back to BC, visiting family along the way. Should be a really nice trip, as long as everything works out Sounds like an amazing plan. It'll be awesome weather too! On 3/20/2018 at 11:16 AM, Butterfly_ said: When I talk about it with family and friends who’ve never been in our position, they don’t really understand the anxiety, stress and emotional turmoil we feel. Exactly my experience. "Just don't think about it for another 2 months!" If it was that easy wouldn't we all have tried that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 22, 2018 Report Share Posted March 22, 2018 1 hour ago, Chestnut said: Exactly my experience. "Just don't think about it for another 2 months!" If it was that easy wouldn't we all have tried that? Lol, so true. It’s so so so so hard!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaplin Posted March 22, 2018 Report Share Posted March 22, 2018 At the moment fantasizing about life post acceptance, then destroying I by thinking about life post rejection, which has been the case so far. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 22, 2018 Report Share Posted March 22, 2018 16 minutes ago, Chaplin said: At the moment fantasizing about life post acceptance, then destroying I by thinking about life post rejection, which has been the case so far. Is this your first time applying Chaplin? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaplin Posted March 22, 2018 Report Share Posted March 22, 2018 2 hours ago, Butterfly_ said: Is this your first time applying Chaplin? 4th sadly. I suck at interviews Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chestnut Posted March 22, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 22, 2018 12 hours ago, Chaplin said: 4th sadly. I suck at interviews Chin up! This could very well be the year for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 22, 2018 Report Share Posted March 22, 2018 14 hours ago, Chaplin said: 4th sadly. I suck at interviews 1 hour ago, Chestnut said: Chin up! This could very well be the year for you Complete agree with Chestnut!! I truly admire your perseverance! I hope we can be classmates in September :)! Wishing us all the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistable Posted March 23, 2018 Report Share Posted March 23, 2018 Most of my effort is on working a full-time job + 10hr/wk partime job. All other energy is on trying to get physically fit. I have no time to even think about decisions... which is for the best haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lothrandir Posted March 24, 2018 Report Share Posted March 24, 2018 TBH its so difficult to analyze interview performance. Some stations where I felt I did good could have been average because other people in my track gave better answers, or in other stations where I did poorly others could have done worse. I was in a circuit with only 3 guys and rest of them all girls and one of the guys said to me "You know girls do better at interviews then guys" , I was like just do your best lol. Then there is interview bias, circuit competitiveness, the little things, and so much more............Dahh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 24, 2018 Report Share Posted March 24, 2018 7 minutes ago, Lothrandir said: TBH its so difficult to analyze interview performance. Some stations where I felt I did good could have been average because other people in my track gave better answers, or in other stations where I did poorly others could have done worse. I was in a circuit with only 3 guys and rest of them all girls and one of the guys said to me "You know girls do better at interviews then guys" , I was like just do your best lol. Then there is interview bias, circuit competitiveness, the little things, and so much more............Dahh I know eh. Certainly, there are a lot of things that are out of our control for this whole med school application process. I think it’s 90% hard work/dedication and 10% luck! However, thinking about things that we cannot control will only bring us anxiety. I’m sure that you did your best. I know it’s so hard to not think about our own interview performance, but thinking about it will most likely make us feel crummy. There’s nothing we can do about it now except wait. Go treat yourself! Relax, breathe and smile! If you wanna chat/vent about anything privately, I’m also all ears Wishing you the best and good news in May!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
med_gods Posted March 26, 2018 Report Share Posted March 26, 2018 Did they ever say when in May do results come out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 26, 2018 Report Share Posted March 26, 2018 9 minutes ago, med_gods said: Did they ever say when in May do results come out? Not yet! I read on the forum that they send out an email in April to let us know when the May results will be. In the past it’s been around May 10-15 though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chestnut Posted March 27, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 27, 2018 22 hours ago, Butterfly_ said: Not yet! I read on the forum that they send out an email in April to let us know when the May results will be. In the past it’s been around May 10-15 though. Historically it seems to be around the end of the week, so maybe May 11? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted March 27, 2018 Report Share Posted March 27, 2018 5 minutes ago, Chestnut said: Historically it seems to be around the end of the week, so maybe May 11? Hopefully! The earlier the better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
this_process_is_death Posted March 27, 2018 Report Share Posted March 27, 2018 Not quite sure where to post this, but I was feeling a bit overwhelmed by the application process today and I stumbled upon this article (https://www.universityaffairs.ca/features/feature-article/medical-school-admissions-process-skewed/). It was a great read and it made me feel a bit more at ease! Good luck to us all in the next 6 weeks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casajayo Posted April 3, 2018 Report Share Posted April 3, 2018 On 3/27/2018 at 3:17 PM, this_process_is_death said: Not quite sure where to post this, but I was feeling a bit overwhelmed by the application process today and I stumbled upon this article (https://www.universityaffairs.ca/features/feature-article/medical-school-admissions-process-skewed/). It was a great read and it made me feel a bit more at ease! Good luck to us all in the next 6 weeks! I've seen this article before and really relate to it as I've found this process incredibly frustrating and have noticed more and more how privilege (time, money, connections) help applicants. I worked throughout university to pay for my living expenses and tuition, trying to find valuable experience yes, but ultimately just trying to pay the bills with minimal debt. I limited the number of school I applied to because of costs, and was the first person in my family to attend university (away from home at that) so had no idea what was really necessary to get into med until a few years in. The thing is, I have no idea how schools can find a way to measure the intangible "struggle" (for lack of a better word) that some students experience; it's a hard thing to do without discrediting the valid, hard work that has been put in by all students vying for a spot. UBC looks like they're trying to understand this better by asking the question about your parents educational background, but it seems like it will be a while before we can expect a lot of changes. Another link if you're interested: http://www.upworthy.com/a-short-comic-gives-the-simplest-most-perfect-explanation-of-privilege-ive-ever-seen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
this_process_is_death Posted April 3, 2018 Report Share Posted April 3, 2018 I think we both went through a similar path (paying for university, 1st college graduate in the family, etc.). I really like the article you attached. I find that there truly is is some sort of correlation between privilege and our chances of getting admitted. I hope that this is our year. I really cannot redo this process for a 5th year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterfly_ Posted April 3, 2018 Report Share Posted April 3, 2018 54 minutes ago, this_process_is_death said: I think we both went through a similar path (paying for university, 1st college graduate in the family, etc.). I really like the article you attached. I find that there truly is is some sort of correlation between privilege and our chances of getting admitted. I hope that this is our year. I really cannot redo this process for a 5th year. Same here. My parents were immigrants and never had the chance to finish high school. I started working on the family farm as a kid and got a job at 15. Never stopped working since. Was luckily enough to get some bursaries and scholarships for university, but it wasn’t enough. Decided to pursue a finance degree and went into investment banking for the money. If I had the resources, I would have pursued medicine from the get go. I don’t regret it and I’ve learned a lot, but it definitely took a lot of my time. I guess everyone’s journey is different. 6 years later, I’m finally pursuing medicine now. It’s been a long, long road. I really hope I get in this year. *Fingers Crossed* Best of luck to you too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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