health&wellness&balance Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haribo7173 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 A day and a half is not a lot for a good reference letter. Wouldn’t read too much into it. capoo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Intrepid86 Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 They don't dislike you. They just don't know you. Being with someone for one and a half days isn't long enough to write anything meaningful. capoo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shikimate Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 They are being honest, which is a good thing. It's better they tell you in advance so you can find someone else rather than write you a non-descript generic letter which can do you harm when everyone else has stellar letters. LostLamb 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rmorelan Posted December 6, 2020 Report Share Posted December 6, 2020 On 12/3/2020 at 12:26 PM, shikimate said: They are being honest, which is a good thing. It's better they tell you in advance so you can find someone else rather than write you a non-descript generic letter which can do you harm when everyone else has stellar letters. this is important - they are basically telling you their letter would not be helpful and thus you need to select someone else that will be. They don't want to create a letter that honestly though lack of experience with you would harm your chances. Ideally that is exactly what you want someone to do if they feel that way. Far better than a suboptimal LOR. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bread Posted December 6, 2020 Report Share Posted December 6, 2020 I had a similar experience a few weeks ago with a preceptor who said that since we only worked together for two weeks, he’d still write a letter, but not to feel bad about not using it if I thought I could get a stronger one from someone else. I was confused because all of our fourth year electives are two weeks. But I took it to mean that it probably won’t be the strongest letter. Bambi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bambi Posted December 6, 2020 Report Share Posted December 6, 2020 Your assessment is correct. Two weeks is long enough to give a strong letter. bread 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rmorelan Posted December 6, 2020 Report Share Posted December 6, 2020 oh and side note - do a bit of honest introspection to see if there is something you are doing or not doing that would be harming your performance. Nothing worse that not advancing when there is a suggestion you may not be performing where you want to be. bread 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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